Tuesday, October 9, 2007

RANT


I wrote a huge post this morning but accidentally deleted it so this will be a compact version of what I wanted to write this morning. Maybe slightly watered down as I've had time to cool off (which is neither a good or a bad thing).

I'm a pretty easy going chick. Yes, some people may beg to differ so let me explain.

I like to be spontaneous and go with the flow, but I also like to have some sense of ordered chaos in my world.. do you get what I mean? if yes, glad you're following my thought process, if no, see you in a while!

What do I mean by ordered chaos? Quite simply, I like to have some sense of sticking to any plan that is made... no matter how loose the plan, if there's one, I don't like to chuck it out the door... so I guess I like spontaneity, but not to replace things that were important enough to plan in the first place. I see that if there's been some sort of plan made, than that should determine the importance in my life. I need to make plans only for the things that I want to prioritise.

So - why am I saying this???

Coz I am extremely peeved that everyone keeps hitting once particular nerve of mine. (that could be slightly exaggerated, but hey, this is a blog after all and I don't know that many people read it anyway!)

All I want is for people to, when they say they'll do something, actually follow through and do it. Stick to their guns.

And it seems like if you don't say "I promise" or sometimes even if you do, commitment is lackluster and seems to take a back seat in life.

Here's a clue: If there's a high possibility of not sticking to what you're about to say (e.g. staying out longer than you said you would), either don't say it, or inform relevant people of the changes if they happen! Sound easy?! I hope so!

Please walk the talk!

Then I'll be happy! Just that so many people I know say a whole heap of great stuff but hardly seem to follow through. So all the great stuff they say turns into crap that gets chucked out with Tuesdays rubbish.

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